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Five Ways to Keep New Relationships Fresh

Alexey Portnov, medical expert
Last reviewed: 19.10.2021

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For women and men, nothing is more delightful than to receive fresh and fresh impressions of the time spent together. The problem is that the new relationship is gradually becoming stable, reliable, but ... Boring. But this should not happen! Every minute of every day you can live like a feeling of free fall. Here are five basic principles that love couples can apply to keep the new relationship fresh and exciting.

Method number 1. Use the fact that you are different

Men and women are different, and never will be otherwise. Use this dissimilarity not for that. To aggravate the misunderstanding between you when the first love of fervor passes. Let this dissimilarity give you an opportunity to learn from each other and admire each other.

For example: she likes to cook, but does not like football. He loves football, but does not like cooking. Take from each other what you do not know how and never did. It is very interesting to learn and receive new knowledge. Let the girl go to the football, and the guy at least once cook for his girlfriend pizza. If you do this together, you will experience many bright, funny, funny and touching moments.

And further. To help your relationship become deeper and more interesting over time, men and women must understand and respect the sexual uniqueness of each other. You must understand, study and assess your differences in the nature, habits and appearance of each other, rather than fighting them or letting them hurt you. Stay different!

Method number 2. Create special cases

Despite your busyness, you still find time to go to a restaurant simply to simply look at each other, enjoy a pleasant atmosphere and a beautiful meal, dance. Create this special occasion, dress up, make reservations and enjoy the fact that you both feel calm and pamper yourself. It's a great way to spend time together, plan together your future, vacation, trip or share your dreams about a career.

Sometimes you need to find a safe place to talk with each other - this can be an important part of maintaining an intimate relationship. Share how you feel and what you think. When you can communicate freely and openly with each other, it strengthens the feeling of love and freshness of relations.

Method number 3. Give each other little presents

How long to wait until your next birthday, the new year, the eighth of March? To feel the holiday unexpectedly and anticipate it, let each of you learn to create special moments every day. Then you will be bound by a common feeling that can occur out of time, at any time.

This moment can be small unexpected gifts, e-mail messages, excursions, learning together something new, enjoying together a written or chosen song ... All these little surprises are the creation of a special moment.

Method number 4. Do "Respect"

"Respect" comes from the Latin word, which actually means looking back. Look back at your partner every time he does anything. Practically this means that you need to pay attention to all the words and quirks of your partner, to his talents, and to appreciate them. Whenever your loved one does something, treat his actions as a small miracle.

Tell each other how well your partner does this or how pleasant it is for you to have his little bouquet of violets or how you like that he prepared coffee for you in the morning. It always refreshes the relationship and creates a holiday in those moments that other couples call habit or routine.

Tip # 5. Thank the partner more often

"Thank you for being in my life." Every day in your relationship, find a way to talk about it to your partner. Gratitude to him is the best antidote to sustain the changes in the relationships that will occur over time. Nothing remains the same, but if you share grateful feelings for each other, your relationship will develop. Any mood, conversation, gift, trip is a new opportunity to say: "Thank you for being in my life."

You can say "thank you" for flowers, books, lunches, rest, candles, wine, theater, concerts, dances, boating, massage and just listening, but do not forget to express your gratitude every day.

It's easy to keep new relationships fresh and sexy - just appreciate each other and those simple moments that make our life happy.

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